I got this email yesterday from a mate in Melbourne… Was cute…
It was obviously written by a woman, and was all these reasons to buy a dog, but was nicely done to insinuate that maybe there was a little comparison with men, and the differences of opinions about life of men and women.
Of course it was a humorous look at these differences, though I can’t help but think in all of these little jokes and emails, that their original writers might have been a little annoyed when they first wrote them. Maybe they angry at an ex, or had just had an argument with their partner and felt a little bitter… Either way, there are the same types of things directed at women, written by scorned men as well. The debate, and the snipes go both ways… with equal amounts of anger and venom.
So what’s my point? My point is that it seems plainly obvious to me that in the thousands of years of social interaction between men and women, we can’t seem to accept that men and women are different, and just leave it at that. This fight for equality that has been raging does have some grounds, as no-one can deny the inequality through the ages. However I believe the ways in which we go about trying to rectify this issue are not well thought out and seem like most things, just done for political correctness and not practicality. I think society today in this country isn’t as unbalanced as some make it out to be, issues that some may find sexist are more than likely to be caused by trying to manage change in a more acceptable way.
Men and women are different, we think differently, we act differently. There is no changing that, that’s just part of life. IMHO, the best option is for us to accept that, try to understand a little bit about the opposite sex and how they think. Most of all, in accepting it, we try not to make others think and act the same way we do. I’m not saying we should just accept that there is an equality, and not change… I’m just saying that maybe we should try and take the venom out of it, and help each other to accept the change.
Change takes time, and requires acceptance… and venom, snide comments, sexist jokes, even in a light-hearted way, doesn’t help the issue. Most of us react badly when we are forced to do something. Even if if we may agree with the issue at hand… we are pushed, we push back. That’s instinct, and like it or not, that is just a part of us that we should never train out. I have a lot to say about instinct, so maybe I’ll keep that for another time when I like the taste of foot.
So… Before you comment on this little rant, let me tell you a few things about me… I believe what I believe until someone convinces me otherwise. My opinion is just that, mine… I understand yours might be very different, and my rant in no way is trying to tell you what YOU should believe. Am I right? Am I wrong? I don’t really know… It’s just an opinion gained through my perspective, my life, my view of our world. I also believe that NO-ONE else can possibly have the same perspective of life, as to have that same perspective you would have had to have been living my life, through my eye’s and my experiences. So, if you choose to share your opinion on this subject, please try and phrase it in a way that you are sharing your opinion, and not dissecting my opinion. Perspective is related to credibility… Perspective is life… Life is non-transferable, just shareable. I’m interested in what you have to share. :)